Friday, May 24, 2013

Gerritt's Pre-K Graduation

Getting ready to perform


Today was a bittersweet day. It was Gerritt's last pre-kindergarten day. It seems that only yesterday he went to his first class. I drove him to the pre-K class at the Community Center near our house & then picked him up 3 days a week for almost a year. I rearranged my work schedule to make it possible. Only a few short hours to me (3.5 hours per day), but it was a whole new world to Gerritt. He learned about letters & numbers, insects & animals, coral reef & the jungle. He made art, learned how to sing, planted seeds & grew a butterfly. He learned about his body & how to make presentations. Gerritt also made many new friends.
With my Dad visiting from Russia, I was focused on getting the kids fed, pottied & dressed (I spent most of the morning chasing Jacob). Gerritt's pre-K graduation was at 12:15 pm, so we left on time to find parking & buy flowers for both of Gerritt's teachers. Luckily, my husband had today off, so I put him in charge of Jacob (Gerritt's concert happened to be near Jacob's nap time). I was in charge of video camera & photos.

Gerritt - the silver fish

Gerritt's face lit up seeing all of us walking into the room. First, the children presented a play for us. Gerritt was the main character - the silver fish. The silver fish was mean to other fish so no one wanted to play with him. When he took some of his sparkling fish scales off & shared them with other fish, he found friends again. The singing followed. The celebration ended with children singing Louis Armstrong's What a Beautiful World.

Singing What a Beautiful World

Cookie time

They were holding beautiful posters they painted to reflect some of the song's most memorable lines. Gerritt held a poster of a rainbow & he proudly lifted it up when he sang, "The colors of the rainbow...So pretty.. in the sky." After concert, the program's director Mrs. Vicky presented each child with pre-K graduation certificate as well as the graduation teddy bear. The celebration ended with everyone having cookies, cupcakes & juice. Gerritt was a wonderful host asking Sophia & I whether we wanted some juice or water. He also made sure Sophia had the chocolate cupcake she wanted.

Gerritt with his preschool teachers - Mrs. Vicky & Mrs. Barbara

I took Gerritt's photo with both of his teachers, since it would be a while before they see each other again. Of course, the teachers encouraged parents to bring the children for a visit. I was so busy getting everyone to Gerritt's graduation on time, making video of the concert & taking photos, I didn't have much time to be sad. The finality of the moment hit me only when the kids went to bed in the evening. It was the first quiet I had all day & I finally had the chance of think about & look back at Gerritt's past year. I wish there was a way to slow down time. The first 3 years of Gerritt's life were so busy, I wished he grew faster more times than I could count. And now my not-so-little "baby" will be turning 6 this fall as well as starting a kindergarten. Although Gerritt doesn't need me as much as he used to when he was younger we remain very close. And even though he has to share my attention with Sophia & Jacob, I have never regretted giving him siblings. I am so proud of the young man Gerritt is becoming & feel so lucky to be his Mom.

The last words of advice from Mrs. Barbara


Russian grandpa enjoying the celebration

Gerritt & family

Monday, May 20, 2013

Russian Grandfather is Here!

Gerritt & Sophia waiting for dedushka to arrive

Dedushka Yuryi meeting Gerritt for the 1st time

Sophia's turn!

After months of planning & a 16-hour airplane trip my father has finally arrived to the US. I bought him an electronic ticket, translated his travel itinerary in great detail & even provided him a list of helpful travel phrases in English & Russian. My only requests were for my Dad to bring his own cigarettes (like most Russian men, he smokes, & cigarettes are really expensive here) & Russian tea (he drinks inordinate amounts of really dark & concentrated tea & thought my little tea packets were a joke). Aside from a delayed departing flight in Moscow (which created a time crunch for going through Customs in New York & catching a connecting flight to Seattle) and delayed luggage (it was put on the next flight out from New York), my Dad's trip went smoothly. He was slightly disappointed his grandchildren couldn't get their presents until tomorrow.



The last time I've seen my Dad was in 2005 when my husband & I traveled to Russia for our honeymoon (we thought it was a great idea back then). My parents divorced when I was young, however, my Dad & I remained in contact (increasingly so during the last 10 years).
Aside from a few photos, he has never seen his 3 grandchildren. With my Mom being gone to Russia for 2 months, it seemed like a perfect time for him to visit. I am slightly relieved my Mom & Dad won't be in each other's company for longer than 3 weeks (she returns in early July).

Can you tell Sophia dressed herself today?


I am excited about getting to know my Dad all over again, without any outside interferences. I don't have any expectations & want his visit to unfold naturally. Tonight I learned that we both like to drink lots of tea & read right before falling asleep. Also just like me my Dad loves dogs. So happy my Dad made it in time for Gerritt's preschool graduation this Friday. Looking forward to a busy 1st week!